Sunday, May 31, 2009
Lawmakers Reject Veto of Nevada Partnership Bill
May 31, 2009
The Assembly overrode Gov. Jim Gibbons' veto on a 28-14 vote Sunday and changed state law so that domestic partners, whether gay or straight, have many of the rights and benefits that Nevada offers to married couples. The Assembly's vote followed the state Senate's similar decision a day earlier. [link]
Knowing Someone Gay/Lesbian and Talking with Him/Her Affects Views of Gay Issues
May 29, 2009
The Gallup Poll data show conclusively that many views toward gay and lesbian issues are related -- in some instances, strongly so -- to personal experience with individuals who are gay or lesbian. There are two plausible explanations for this relationship. One is that exposure to gays and lesbians leads to greater acceptance, regardless of one's ideological leanings. [link]
Nevada Senate Backs Domestic Partnership Bill Over Gov
May 30, 2009
The Nevada Senate has voted to override Gov. Jim Gibbons' veto of a measure that gives domestic partners, whether gay or straight, many of the rights and benefits that Nevada offers to married couples. The 14-7 Senate vote Saturday — the required two-thirds majority with no votes to spare — must be affirmed by the Assembly to enact the measure into law over the governor's objections. [link]
NH Governor Approves of Changes to Marriage Bill
May 30, 2009
Friday a conference committee of the New Hampshire House and Senate reached a compromise agreement and Saturday Governor John Lynch told NewsNine it appears that lawmakers are meeting his demands for more protections of religious freedom. [link]
Personal Touch Will Change Minds on Marriage
May 30, 2009
For all the expensive television ads that were rolled out for and against Proposition 8, it is the personal touch that really changes minds. The opponents of Prop. 8 learned that lesson. That's why they're rallying in Fresno today as part of the first high-profile effort to get voters to undo the ban on gay and lesbian marriages. [link]
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Maryland Attorney General Explores Recognition of Marriages in Other States
May 30, 2009
Attorney General Douglas F. Gansler is exploring whether legal marriages of same-sex couples performed in other states can be recognized in Maryland, a move that could open an avenue for legal recognition of gay and lesbian couples who have been rebuffed by the courts and legislature here. [link]
Thousands Rally in California's Heartland for Freedom to Marry
May 30, 2009
Aiming to reach out to conservative voters, about 3,000 gay-rights supporters gathered Saturday in California's Central Valley in a renewed campaign to win support for equal marriage rights. Just days after the California Supreme Court upheld Prop 8, activists launched a 14 1/2 -mile march from the town of Selma to Fresno, where they rallied in front of City Hall as a peaceful campaign-styled event to win back marriage rights. [link]
Voice for Equality: Justice Carlos R. Moreno

Although many were disappointed in the California Supreme Court’s decision to uphold Proposition 8, Justice Carlos R. Moreno wrote the lone dissenting opinion on the court’s ruling. He wrote,
"I conclude that requiring discrimination against a minority group on the basis of suspect classification strikes at the core of the promise of equality that underlies the California constitution."
This is not the first time that Justice Moreno has taken a public stance against discrimination directed at those of the LGBT community; in Koebke v. Bernando Heights, Moreno ruled that California anti-discrimination law barred businesses from treating registered domestic partners differently from married couples.
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Justice Carlos R. Moreno as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Dustin Lance Black
Dustin Lance Black is an American screenwriter and director. He has written for the HBO series Big Love and, most recently, the screenplay for Milk, the Oscar-winning biopic of Harvey Milk. Black received an Academy Award for his work in Milk, as well as recognition from the American Film Institute and UCLA.
In his acceptance speech at the 2009 Oscars, Black sent out a message in the spirit of Harvey Milk:
“I think he'd want me to say, to all of the gay and lesbian kids out there tonight, who have been told that they are 'less than' by their churches or by the government or by their families that you are wonderful, beautiful creatures of value, and that no matter what anyone tells you God does love you, and that very soon, I promise you, you will have equal rights, federally, across this great nation of ours."
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Dustin Lance Black as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Lewis Black

Lewis Black is a Grammy Award-winning stand-up comedien, playwright, author, and actor. Black has releases seven comedy albums and two best-selling books. He is widely lauded for his explosive delivery and pithy political and cultural critiques.
Black has expressed his support of the freedom to marry in many a stand-up performance. While performing in Santa Rosa, CA, in 2004, Black ridiculed efforts to amend the U.S. constitution to ban marriage equality:
“That’s something you’re gonna…worry about now? You need a hobby! ‘Cause on the list of things we have to worry about gay marriage is on page six after ‘Are we eating too much garlic as a people?’”
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Lewis Black as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Sean Penn

Sean Penn is an American actor, director and political activist. Famous for roles in Dead Man Walking, I am Sam, Mystic River, All the King’s Men, and Milk, he has received two Academy Awards and five nominations. As a director, Penn has received critical claim for his work on the film Into the Wild.
On February 22, 2009, after winning the Best Actor Academy Award for his portrayal of Harvey Milk in Milk, Penn expressed his frustration with California’s Proposition 8:
“…For those who saw the signs of hatred, as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban on gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren's eyes if they continue that way of support. We've got to have equal rights for everyone."
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Sean Penn as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Patton Oswalt
Patton Oswalt is an American screenwriter, actor, comedian, and voiceover artist. Oswalt is best known for his role as Spence Olchin on CBS’ The King of Queens and as the voice of Remy in Ratatouille. He has released three comedy albums and written a number of film and television scripts. In his comedy routines, Oswalt often satirizes the attitudes of society’s more close-minded. In his 2007 album Werewolves and Lollipops, Oswalt declared that “…the Fact that we don’t have gay marriage in this country is insane!”
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Patton Oswalt as a Voice for Equality!
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Black, Gay and Reclaiming 'Civil Rights'
Pam Spaulding
May 27, 2009
Cambridge Mayor E. Denise Simmons, the first out black lesbian in the country to serve as mayor, says she has noticed that some in the black community have come around to accepting the freedom to marry, possibly because they realize married gay couples are no different from married straight couples. [link]
'Civil Unions' Don't Go Far Enough
Editorial
May 29, 2009
"Hawaii legislators considered legalizing "civil unions" in this year's session, but recent legal interpretations and sentiment in California indicate that civil unions are not an acceptable compromise." [link]
Friday, May 29, 2009
California NAACP Decries Prop 8 Ruling
May 29, 2009
"The rights of gay and lesbians to marry is most certainly a civil rights issue of the first order," said Alice Huffman, president of the California National Association for the Advancement of Colored People. "By refusing to overturn Proposition 8, the California Supreme Court deferred to a simple majority to eliminate equal protection rights for a disenfranchised minority. This is what the NAACP has fought about for over 100 years." [link]
Illinois Civil Union Bill Moves to Final Reading Before House
May 29, 2009
Senate Bill 1716 has moved to Third Reading, according to Illinois State Rep. Greg Harris. The bill will establish Civil Unions in Illinois. "Third reading" means the bill is read for a third and final time before the full chamber. After the sponsor explains the bill, members of the chamber can ask questions. When debate is completed, the chamber votes on the bill. [link]
State Legislative Leaders Vow no Action on Freedom to Marry
May 29, 2009
“Our goal is, hopefully for a long time, to do nothing on this issue,” Iowa House Speaker Pat Murphy, D-Dubuque, said. “To let people know that on April 3 there was a ruling, and on April 27 there were a lot of people who said the end of the world was coming. Well, it’s a month later, and the sun is still shining, the grass is still green and people are enjoying their lives and living in more dignity because of what’s happened.” [link]
Gov. Culver: Marriage Equality not a Problem for Iowans
May 29, 2009
An Iowa Supreme Court decision that legalized the freedom to marry in the state won't be a significant factor in next year's race for governor because most voters have accepted the concept, Gov. Chet Culver said Friday. "Most Iowans believe it's important to protect people's rights under the Iowa Constitution," said the Governor. [link]
Christian Group Asks to Fight Federal Suit on Freedom to Marry
May 29, 2009
The Alliance Defense Fund is seeking to formally fight a federal lawsuit aimed at overturning California's gay marriage ban. The ADF spent more than $37 million in leading the campaign to pass Proposition 8 in November and successfully defended it before the state Supreme Court. The judge will hold a hearing July 2 to consider the group's request and whether to temporarily suspend the ban while considering the lawsuit. [link]
Freedom to Marry Finds a Supporter in a NY State Education Official
May 29, 2009
In an ad campaign by the Empire State Pride Agenda, State Deputy Secretary for Education Duffy Palmer assures people that should marriage equality legislation pass, New York teachers would not be forced to teach children about gay marriage. [link]
Compromise Reached on NH Marriage Bill
May 29, 2009
New Hampshire House and Senate negotiators on Friday agreed to add one sentence and change one word in a bill that will determine whether the state allows gay marriage. Both chambers have approved bills to legalize the freedom to marry, but Gov. John Lynch later demanded additional language. The new version is expected to come up for a vote Wednesday. [link]
Take Action this Saturday in California!

Numerous state and national organizations are sponsoring Meet in the Middle 4 Equality this Saturday, May 30th in Fresno, California. Unite in support of winning back the freedom to marry in California. Learn more here
United for Equality
Join us in Fresno, the middle of California, as we galvanize our forces with a day of unity of all peoples - gay and straight alike. Our peaceful events, including our Equality March and our Equality Rally, share the theme of "United for Equality". Join with us and then take our vision back to your own communities where we can work together to change our world to include federal level equality, access & justice for all.
No right to a civil rite
May 29, 2009
Julian Bond, Board Chairman of the NAACP writes, "The news that California's Supreme Court has upheld the validity of Proposition 8, ending marriage equality in the state, was shocking even as it was expected. The state that proudly declares "the future starts here," took a backward step while reinforcing the truisms that minority rights should never be subject to a popular vote - and that judges should not be elected...What is at issue is the arbitrary denial of a civil rite to some - if that's not a denial of civil rights, I don't know what is." (Link)
The ‘Lucky’ Ones
May 29, 2009
The Stranger's David Schmader writes, "California's Supreme Court ruling didn't invalidate my marriage. But that still doesn't mean I feel truly married...I'll only feel truly married when every committed same-sex couple in the U.S. can wed. (Link)
'Civil unions' don't go far enough
May 29, 2009
The California Supreme Court's upholding of last year's ballot measure banning marriage equality has sparked what appears to be a resolve to reverse the law, as early as in next year's election. Hawaii legislators considered legalizing "civil unions" in this year's session, but recent legal interpretations and sentiment in California indicate that civil unions are not an acceptable compromise. (Link)
Celebrities Champion State’s Marriage Equality Bill
May 29, 2009
Celebrities such as Maya Angelou, Cynthia Nixon and Paul Tagliabue are lobbying some N.Y. state senators to vote in favor of marriage equality bill which already passed the state Assembly. Only one month remains for the senate to take action before the end of the legislative session. (Link)
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Statement of the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund, Inc. on the Proposition 8 Ruling from the California Supreme Court
May 28, 2009
'By allowing a bare majority of the California electorate to deny access to marriage to a minority group, the California Supreme Court set a dangerous precedent. As Justice Carlos Moreno recognized in dissent, "The majority's holding is not just a defeat for same-sex couples, but for any minority group that seeks the protection of the equal protection clause of the California Constitution." ' [link]
Vote Set on Illinois Civil Union Bill
May 28, 2009
The Illinois house is scheduled to vote on a civil union bill Thursday with a scheduled break quickly approaching. Rep. Greg Harris's proposed bill would establish civil unions for both gay and straight couples that would provide a "substantially similar legal relationship" with the same responsibilities, benefits, and protections that married couples are already privy to. [link]
David Hyde Pierce Reveals Marriage
May 28, 2009
Emmy- and Tony-winning actor David Hyde Pierce revealed on The View that he and his longtime partner married last fall. The former Frasier star said Thursday that he and TV producer Brian Hargrove tied the knot "very quietly last October 24th." The couple has been together for 25 years. [link]
Federal Challenge to Prop 8 Launched
May 28, 2009
"The best way to maximize the chances of winning a lawsuit is by creating the climate that enables judges to do their job," said Evan Wolfson, head of the national Freedom to Marry group. Wolfson said that marriage rights are more easily won by "building more public support, and doing the same kind of work needed to restore the freedom to marry at the ballot-box in California" and other states. [link]
Olson, Boies Unite to Fight Calif. Ban on Marriage for Gays in Federal Court
May 28, 2009
Gay-rights lawyers on Wednesday welcomed longtime conservative lawyer Theodore Olson into the fight for the freedom to marry, but warned him and liberal colleague David Boies that they could hurt the cause more than help it by launching an attack on California's Proposition 8 in the federal courts. "There is no end run around the nitty-gritty work of social change," Evan Wolfson, executive director of the New York-based Freedom to Marry, said in a telephone call. "If it was just about hiring a good lawyer and filing a good brief, we'd have won decades ago." [link]
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Divorce for Gay Couples Still Legal in California
May 27, 2009
Gay and lesbian couples who took advantage of California’s brief fling with gay marriage last year to tie the knot, but now can’t stand the sight of one another, will be relieved to hear that gay divorce remains an option. Also, because most gay couples who’ve married thus far had already been together for many years, the divorce rate for gay couples is still low, says Evan Wolfson, founder of Freedom to Marry. “I expect that, over time, gay people will probably have the same rate of [marriage] failure as non-gay people,” says Wolfson. “And that’s part of the point. People should be treated equally.” [link]
Interest High in Marriage for Gay Couples In First Month in Iowa
May 27, 2009
In the first month since marriages for gay couples have been legal in Iowa, local county recorders and marriage planners said they've been very busy. Polk County alone issued 173 licenses, 74 on the first day. Johnson County issued 86 marriage licenses in the first 30 days and Pottawattamie County issued 80. Attorney General Tom Miller said his office has received no complaints from people about recorders who refused to issue licenses to same-sex couples. [link]
Stars Take to Streets to Protest Prop 8 Ruling
May 27, 2009
On Tuesday morning, the California Supreme Court upheld Proposition 8 — the gay marriage ban passed back in November — and on Tuesday night some of Hollywood’s biggest celebrities joined thousands of protesters. Celebrities in attendance included Drew Barrymore, Kathy Griffin, George Takei, Kelly Osbourne, Deborah Gibson, Emmy Rossum, Sophia Bush, Perez Hilton and Shanna Moakler. [link]
Finding Common Ground in Freedom to Marry Debate
May 27, 2009
Critics fail to see that arguments for recognizing the freedom to marry and protecting religious liberty share a common foundation. Both the right to marry and the right to practice a religion are basic autonomy rights. We protect them both because they reflect core aspects of a person's identity and involve important, self-defining decisions that belong as a right to each individual. [link]
NH Senate: No Ballot Vote on Marriage Rights
May 27, 2009
Senate Democrats killed a move yesterday to put the freedom to marry before voters next year.
By a 14-10 vote, the Senate defeated a move to put a non-binding referendum on the November 2010 ballot. Democrats argued that two past state Supreme Court decisions have said the state Constitution does not allow referenda. [link]
Group Aims to Block D.C. Marriage Bill
May 27, 2009
Proponents of continuing marriage discriminationformally requested a citywide referendum yesterday to block the District from recognizing legal marriages of gay couples performed in other jurisdictions, but in the District they face a greater hurdle to get the issue on the ballot than in California. [link]
Poll: Majority of RI Voters Favor Marriage Equality Law
May 27, 2009
A Brown University poll showed 60 percent of registered voters in the state said they would support a law allowing gay couples to marry, and 75 percent said they would support a law allowing civil unions. Thirty-one percent said they would oppose a marriage law. [link]
Focus on Freedom to Marry Stays on State Fights
May 27, 2009
California's status as a guardian of gay rights slipped this week when its highest court upheld a voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage, even as other states extended the institution to gay couples. The focus, however, remained on working though state legislatures and voters to win marriage rights, said Evan Wolfson, executive director of New York-based Freedom to Marry.
"Winning marriage in more states is crucial not only for the families living in those states, but for creating a comfort level that sets the stage for a national resolution," he said. [link]
PA senator to introduce bill for equal marriage rights
May 27, 2009
Sen. Daylin Leach, D-Delaware/Montgomery, announced Wednesday that he plans to introduce a bill that would offer ful and equal marriage rights to same-sex couples in the state. Under this new legislation, Pennsylvania would also recognize same-sex marriages conducted in other states. [Link]
Returning to the Ballot -- 2010 vs. 2012
May 26, 2009
This memo lays out our thinking and approach to restoring marriage equality in California. [Link]
LGBT Organizations Warn that Lawsuits Could Set Back Progress on Marriage for Same-Sex Couples
May 27, 2009
In response to the California Supreme Court decision allowing Prop 8 to stand, four LGBT legal organizations and five other leading national LGBT groups are reminding the LGBT community that ill-timed lawsuits could set the fight for marriage back. The groups released a new publication, “Why the ballot box and not the courts should be the next step on marriage in California.” This publication discourages people from bringing premature lawsuits based on the federal Constitution because, without more groundwork, the U.S. Supreme Court likely is not yet ready to rule that same-sex couples cannot be barred from marriage. The groups also revised “Make Change, Not Lawsuits,” which was released after the California Supreme Court decision ending the ban on marriage for same-sex couples in California. This publication encourages couples who have legally married to ask friends, neighbors and institutions to honor their marriages, but discourages people from bringing lawsuits. (Link)
"Why the ballot box and not the courts should be the next step on marriage in California” is available at http://www.freedomtomarry.org/pdfs/why_the_ballot_box.pdf
"Make Change, Not Lawsuits" is available at http://www.freedomtomarry.org/pdfs/make_change_not_lawsuits-0509_update.pdf
BLOG: Hispanics Back Marriage Equality at Same Rates as Whites
May 26, 2009
Nate Silver blogs about several national and state polls that indicate that support for marriage equality among Hispanic voters is relatively similar to support among white voters. [Link]
Saying 'I Do' to Marriage Equality?
May 26, 2009
Good Morning America discusses marriage equality with people from both sides of the debate on Prop. 8 decision day. Evan Wolfson: "The idea of the freedom to marry is something new to most people. It's something people are just beginning to think through." [Link]
The Rachel Maddow Show Sen. Boxer on Prop. 8
May 27, 2009
Calif. Sen. Barbara Boxer expresses disappointment over the Calif. Supreme Court's decision to uphold Prop. 8 and talks about how she hopes in the future people will come together to support marriage equality. [Link]
Rachel Maddow Show We Are Gathered Here Today
May 27, 2009
Rachel Maddow reports on nationwide protests occurring after the Calif. Supreme Court's ruling on Prop. 8, and notes that the marriage equality movement seems to be gathering even more momentum in the wake of this setback. [Link]
Search Is On for Votes to Beat Gibbons’ Domestic Partner Veto
May 27, 2009
Nevada state Sen. David Parks is leading the effort to gather the votes needed to override Gov. Jim Gibbons' veto of a bill that would allow domestic partnerships. Parks said he needs two additional votes in both the Senate and Assembly to override the veto. [Link]
Answers to Questions About Prop. 8 Ruling
May 27, 2009
The Times answers readers' questions about Tuesday's ruling that upheld Prop. 8 (links to Prop. 8 and marriage equality timelines). [Link]
Marriage Battle to Return to Calif. Ballot
May 27, 2009
Equality leaders say that after a setback in the Calif. Supreme Court Tuesday, they plan to campaign to repeal Prop. 8 at the ballot as soon as 2010. Equality California's Geoffrey Kors: "So the court has said we have to go back. We believe the political drive, the momentum, is there to do that." [Link]
2010: Measure to Repeal Prop. 8 Likely
May 26, 2009
Said Evan Wolfson: "There's a ton of work that needs to be done before we ever think of 2010, and there needs to be a way to hold these organizations accountable, to identify what the metrics should be. How many voters have they reached? How much money have they raised? How much ad time do they have? These questions all need to be asked." [Link]
California high court upholds Prop. 8
May 27, 2009
In deciding that gay couples who married in California before the November election will remain married, the court said it would be unfair and might even invite chaos to nullify marriages those couples entered into lawfully. Ending those marriages would be akin to "throwing property rights into disarray, destroying the legal interests and expectations of thousands of couples and their families, and potentially undermining the ability of citizens to plan their lives according to the law as it has been determined by the state's highest court," George wrote. [Link]
EDITORIAL: A Setback for Equality
May 27, 2009
"The California Supreme Court got it terribly wrong Tuesday. It upheld Proposition 8, a state constitutional change on last fall's ballot intended to prohibit marriage by couples of the same sex. In addition to denying basic fairness to gay people, the court's 6-to-1 ruling sets an unfortunate legal precedent that could allow the existing rights of any targeted minority to be diminished using the Election Day initiative process." [Link]
OPINION: California court's contradictory Prop. 8 decision
May 27, 2009
The decision Tuesday that upheld a state constitutional ban on same-sex marriage was social and moral nonsense. "Legal precedents notwithstanding -- and the six clearly nervous justices who made up the majority in this case reached all the way back to the state Constitution of 1849 for those -- Tuesday's decision was intellectually and morally incoherent. It essentially tells Californians that a right as fundamental as the ability to choose the marital partner of your choice is a kind of judicial lottery ticket -- if you got in early, you win, but those who arrived a few days late lose. Sorry." [Link]
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
New Poll Says New Yorkers Want Marriage Bill Brought to Vote in State Senate
May 26, 2009
Nearly eight of 10 New Yorkers say the state Senate should put a bill legalizing the freedom to marry up for a vote regardless of whether there's enough support to pass it, a new poll released Tuesday shows. The Siena College poll shows that 78% of those surveyed disagree with Senate Majority Leader Malcolm Smith, who said he would only bring the bill to the floor only if he has the 32 votes needed to pass it. [link]
Levi’s Adopts a Tie-In With a Symbol of the Freedom to Marry
May 26, 2009
Levi’s is getting in the spirit of the season by dressing its storefront mannequins in white. In Levi’s-owned stores in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago and San Francisco, that means more than just marking the passing of Memorial Day, the traditional date to begin wearing white: in 20 stores, the mannequins’ white Levi’s jeans and shirts are adorned with White Knots, a symbol of solidarity with the marriage equality movement. [link]
Gay Celebs React to California Court Ruling
May 26, 2009
Chat show host Ellen DeGeneres, whose August marriage to actress Portia de Rossi remains valid, spoke out against Tuesday's court ruling. "One day, when everyone is treated with full equality, we'll look back and realize how wrong this was," DeGeneres said in a statement on the Twitter page for her TV show. George Takei, who played "Star Trek" crew member Mr. Sulu on TV and in movies, also criticized the decision. [link]
Editorial: Equal Marriage Rights Will Spread, Even to California
May 26, 2009
Today's California Supreme Court ruling sets a dangerous precedent: It denies a minority a right that the constitution had provided. As if to reinforce that point, the justices unanimously let stand the marriages of 18,000 same sex couples who tied the knot between last May's court ruling and the passage of Proposition 8. The only dissenter in the Proposition 8 decision was Justice Carlos Moreno. He wrote that the proposition requires discrimination and "places at risk the state constitutional rights of all disfavored minorities." [link]
Would Marriage Equality for Gays Help the State Economy?
California High Court Upholds Gay Marriage Ban
May 26, 2009
The California Supreme Court upheld a ban on marriage equality for gay couples Tuesday, ratifying a decision made by voters last year. The ruling comes at a time when several state governments have moved in the opposite direction. Heated reaction to the decision began immediately, with advocates for the freedom to marry making plans for their own ballot initiative. [link]
Pride Agenda Statement on Prop 8 Decision
May 26, 2009
"I believe that New York is getting ready to join its neighbors here in the Northeast. We are on the verge of passing legislation that would finally give same-sex couples in New York the 1,324 rights and protections that come with a state marriage license. Our State Assembly and our Governor have already made it clear that no family in New York should be denied the vital legal security of a civil marriage license—and that LGBT New Yorkers should never be treated like second-class citizens." [Link]
After California Ruling, Will More States Favor Marriage Equality?
May 26, 2009
CNN.com's Ed Hornick examines the political and cultural shifts toward marriage equality, noting advances this year in Iowa, Vermont, Maine and the District of Columbia, as well as growing support from moderate Republicans. [Link]
VIDEO: Won't Back Down - help repeal Prop 8
May 26, 2009
"Even though the California Supreme Court upheld Prop 8 and same-sex couples can no longer marry, we won't back down." [Link]
EDITORIAL: Gay Rights: Benefits for Federal Workers the Next Logical Step
May 26, 2009
The Seattle Times advocates for the extension of domestic partnership benefits to the partners of gay federal employees: "Americans are ready, or should be, for a fair-minded adjustment of federal policy." [Link]
"Luke" - Pride Agenda's TV ad calling for equal treatment for all New York families
May 21, 2009
Karen Schuster of Rochester, NY has a gay son and three straight children. She wants to know why her son Luke does not have the same rights as her daughter Jessica. In Karens words, If Jessica meets someone and falls in love and wants to get married, she can. But if Luke meets someone and falls in love and wants to get married, he can't. It's not equal treatment. This painful situation is the reality for thousands of families across New York State. We need the New York State Senate to act now and pass the marriage equality bill so that same-sex couples will no longer be treated as second-class citizens. [Link]
United We Mourn, United We Stand
May 26, 2009
"[W]e have weathered far worse storms. We fought back against the criminalization of our relationships and violence at the hands of government officials and police, and we must remember that this year marks the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. We fought back against efforts to strip us of custody of our children. We fought back against medical authorities when they pathologized our love. And we continue to fight against an epidemic that still claims the lives of far too many. By being our authentic selves, by demanding change and full equality, we have changed the law and transformed public opinion. And we have built one of the strongest movements for human freedom and equality of our time." [Link]
Obama nominates Sotomayor to Supreme Court
May 26, 2009
"From everything I know, Judge Sotomayor is an outstanding choice -- fair and aware, open and judicious," said Evan Wolfson. "I believe she has the demonstrated commitment to principles of equal protection and inclusion that defines a good nominee to the Supreme Court. In choosing Judge Sotomayor, the first Latino candidate for the Supreme Court, President Obama has made a strong and appealing nomination that should and will receive the supportof those committed to equality for lesbians and gay men." [Link]
Quote of the Week
"Getting married, there's nothing revolutionary about it -- it's something you do with the person you love."— Mike McGuill, who has been married to his spouse, Jonathan Scott, in Massachusetts since August 2006, as quoted by The Boston Globe
California Supreme Court Fails to Overturn Proposition 8
New Ballot Campaign Needed to Restore the Freedom to Marry
The California Supreme Court today let stand Proposition 8, continuing marriage discrimination in California. The Court refused to undo the 18,000 marriages that same-sex couples celebrated in 2008, so that those couples remain married even while other California couples are, for now, barred from joining in marriage.
“The California Supreme Court today failed to uphold the core principle of American constitutional government that a simple majority may not selectively vote away a fundamental right from a minority targeted for invidious, suspect reasons,” said Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry and author of Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality and Gay People's Right to Marry. “It is now going to be up to the people of California to undo Prop 8's discriminatory misstep through a ballot-measure in 2012 or sooner. The Prop 8 campaign is over; the campaign to restore the freedom to marry and remove this blemish on the constitution and cruel hardship on California's gay couples and their families is now underway.”
As the groundwork for a new ballot initiative to restore the freedom to marry in California and overturn Proposition 8 begins, rallies and opportunities for people to voice their disapproval of this decision and get involved with efforts to overturn this discrimination will take place across the state of California and the entire country over the next week.
“We all must take our anger and frustration over this disappointing decision and focus on the conversations and renewed, constructive engagement and persuasion needed to restore the freedom to marry,” Wolfson said. “The most important thing we can all do is talk with those around us about why marriage equality is important to us and help more states, including California, follow the good example of Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont, Iowa, and the others that have ended exclusion from marriage.”
Freedom to Marry commends the leadership of National Center for Lesbian Rights, Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, and the City and County of San Francisco, who represented six same-sex couples and Equality California in this case. Thanks is also due to the array of civil rights groups and supportive organizations who filed amicus briefs in support of overturning Prop 8 including African-American, Hispanic, and Asian/Pacific civil rights organizations; cities such as San Francisco and Los Angeles; teachers and child-welfare professionals; religious leaders; businesses and labor unions; and advocates for same-sex couples and their families.
Despite today's flawed court ruling, momentum for the freedom to marry continues across the nation. Since April, three more states—Iowa through court decision and Vermont and Maine through legislative action—have the freedom to marry, joining Massachusetts and Connecticut.
All eyes are now on New York, New Hampshire, and New Jersey, whose governors have pledged to sign the pending freedom to marry bills once they reach their desks. New York's Assembly passed the marriage bill in May, and political leaders from across the state, including New York City's Independent/Republican Mayor Michael Bloomberg and U.S. Senators Chuck Schumer and Kirsten Gillibrand, have called on the State Senate to follow suit in the next few weeks. New Hampshire’s Senate already approved the bill, but the House is still studying it in committee.
Gibbons Vetoes Legislation Granting Benefits to Domestic Partners
May 26, 2009
Nevada Gov. Jim Gibbons vetoed a bill Monday that would have allowed same-sex and straight couples to become legal domestic partners with many of the protections afforded to straight married couples. [Link]
OP-ED (In Three Parts): The Fight for the Freedom to Marry: An Oral History
May 26, 2009
S.F. Mayor Gavin Newsom, LGBT equality pioneer Phyllis Lyon, and marriage equality opponent and attorney Andrew Pugno write about their respective roles in the movements for and against marriage for gay couples in Calif. [Link]
California Couples Await Marriage Ruling
May 26, 2009
LGBT equality advocates and marriage equality opponents weigh in on how the state Supreme Court's pending decision on whether to overturn Prop. 8 could affect them. NCLR's Kate Kendell: "It is more than symbolism to say that an entire category of recognition is off limits to one class of people." [Link]
California Supreme Court Fails to Overturn Proposition 8
As the groundwork for a new ballot initiative to restore the freedom to marry in California and overturn Proposition 8 begins, rallies and opportunities for people to voice their disapproval of this decision and get involved with efforts to overturn this discrimination will take place across the state of California and the entire country over the next week. Learn more here
Monday, May 25, 2009
Looking Back at a Time When Interracial Marriage was Illegal
May 25, 2009
Memories of the Perez case were suddenly revived last May when the California Supreme Court overturned the state's ban on marriage for same-sex couples, using the Perez decision as a key precedent. The state's midcentury interracial marriage pioneers, including Jeanne Lowe and the Watsons, have been largely absent from the debate, though they do have opinions about it.
Leon Watson said he "couldn't care less" who married whom, and, playfully conversing with his wife, wondered why the Catholic Church that went out on a limb to marry them couldn't marry same-sex couples. Jeanne Lowe, who has three children, one of them a lesbian, said she feels that adults have the right to marry whomever they choose. [link]
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Rochester Mayor: Gay New Yorkers Deserve Right to Marry
May 24, 2009
Rochester Mayor Duffy: "The state Assembly recently passed a bill that provides same-sex couples the same opportunity to enter into civil marriages as opposite-sex couples. The state Senate will now take up the measure, and I am urging its passage." [link]
32 Needed to Say 'I do'
May 24, 2009
32 votes are necessary to pass New York's pending legislation enacting the freedom to marry, and the bill will require bipartisan support due to the opposition of at least one Democrat. the bill's sponsor, Democratic Sen. Tom Duane of Manhattan, has said that he has received commitments of support from GOP members and has indicated that a Republican may publicly announce his support soon. [link]
Waiting Decades To Make It Official: Same Sex Couples Anticipate NY Milestone
May 24. 2009
H. David Wilt and Dr. Charles “Chuck" Hitchcock are celebrating their 40th anniversary, having met each other in the late 1960s. Now, the two men find themselves living in a state on the brink of legalizing same-sex marriage, something unheard of when they first got together. [link]
State Dept. Plan Would Extend Benefits to Same Sex Partners
May 24, 2009
Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton will soon announce that the partners of gay U.S. diplomats are eligible for many benefits currently denied them and allowed to spouses of heterosexual diplomats, according to lawmakers and others advocating the change. [link]
Among Suffolk Democrats, Tide Shifts on Marriage Equality
May 23, 2009
Suffolk Democratic chairman Richard Schaffer said he backed the pending state bill legalizing the freedom to marry and asked all 250 committee members present to contact their local legislators to support the measure. Referring to Suffolk's lone openly gay county legislator, Schaffer said, "We want to make sure that Jon Cooper does not have to go to Connecticut to get married. He should be allowed to get married right here in New York." Cooper only a week earlier celebrated nuptials in the Nutmeg State with Rob, his partner of 29 years. [link]
Bill O'Reilly: 'Gay Marriage Debate is Just About Over'
Op-Ed by Bill O'Reilly
May 23, 2009
"I don’t really care much about gay marriage because I believe it presents no danger and the deity can sort this stuff out after we’re dead. I take a libertarian position because I want all Americans to be able to pursue happiness equally." [link]
Cokie Roberts: Gay Family Values
Op-ed by Cokie and Steve Roberts
May 24, 2009
"Same-sex couples are sharing and strengthening the "family values" that conservatives profess to defend when they oppose gay marriage - constancy, stability and a belief in the promises they make to each other and their children. This is why the issue of same-sex marriage is shifting so rapidly." [link]
For Gay Couples, Married Matters
May 24, 2009
Five years after the first same-sex weddings in Massachusetts, gay and lesbian couples express deeply traditional reasons for deciding to wed and cite equally conventional benefits flowing from marriage, according to a study being released this week. The survey indicates that there is something universal about the legal protections and social advantages afforded by the institution of marriage, said the study's authors from the University of California, Los Angeles as well as independent researchers. [link]
How Obama Set the Tone for a Quiet Revolution in Gay Rights
May 24, 2009
With two lesbians shortlisted for America's supreme court and more than 30 gay men and lesbians appointed to senior posts by the president, the US is witnessing an unprecedented cultural change that is reshaping politics, media, and popular culture. The most visible sign is the flurry of states legalising the freedom to marry. As Massachusetts celebrated five years of marriage for gay couples this year, Connecticut, Vermont, Maine and Iowa came on board. New Hampshire is on the verge, as is New York. [link]
La Cage aux Democrats
Op-Ed by Frank Rich
May 23, 2009
Evan Wolfson reminds us in his book “Why Marriage Matters,” Dr. King addressed political dawdling on civil rights in 1963. “For years now I have heard the word ‘Wait,’ ” King wrote. “It rings in the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This ‘Wait’ has almost always meant ‘Never.’ ” The gay civil rights movement and specifically the movement for the freedom to marry has fewer obstacles in its path than did Dr. King’s Herculean mission to overthrow the singular legacy of slavery. That makes it all the more shameful that it has fewer courageous allies in Washington than King did. If “American Idol” can sing out for change on Fox in prime time, it ill becomes Obama, of all presidents, to remain mute in the White House. [link]
Saturday, May 23, 2009
The Way We Live Now: Queer Developments
May 21, 2009
When historians look back on the culture clashes of the 1990s, perhaps the closest thing they will find to a political trendsetter is an oddball like Jesse Ventura, who supported the freedom to marry then and embodied the enlightened libertarianism that would ultimately enable many Americans to accept a once unthinkable idea. History will record that neither then nor later was there a national party he could call his own. [link]
Friday, May 22, 2009
Marriage views all about age, region
May 21, 2009
Younger Americans, more eclectic in their views on social issues and more likely to have friends or family members who are openly gay, are more tolerant of same-sex couples than their parents or grandparents and appear to be more interested in compromise. Over the last 22 years, attitudes about gay rights have changed significantly, especially among the religious, according to a new survey by the Pew Research Center for the People & the Press. [Link]
Decision Tuesday in Prop 8 Case!
May 22, 2009
NCLR's Kate Kendell writes, "On Tuesday, the California Supreme Court will issue its ruling in our Prop 8 legal challenge. We brought this case on behalf of Equality California and six couples who urgently wish to retain the freedom to marry in California, but the Court's decision will mean so much more to so many—to same-sex couples in California and in states across the country, to those who advocate for minority rights, and to all those who care about equality. The Court's decision will determine whether or not Prop 8 is valid, and whether or not the more than 18,000 marriages that took place between June 16 and November 4, 2008 will continue to be legally valid and recognized by the State of California." [Link]
Voice for Equality: P.J. Benjamin

Stage actor P.J. Benjamin is most well known for starring as the Wizard in the Broadway musical Wicked. Other credits include the Broadway revival of Chicago, Wind in the Willows, and The Pajama Game.
In February of 2009, Benjamin was a featured performer at Defying Inequality, a Broadway concert and fundraiser in the name of marriage equality. Benjamin’s presence is indicative of his ongoing support of gay rights the freedom to marry.
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute P.J. Benjamin as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Shoshana Bean

Stage actress and singer Shoshana Bean is best known for playing Elphaba in the Broadway musical Wicked. Since leaving Wicked, Bean has been recording background vocals for various film soundtracks and recently released her debut album, Superhero. In the early 2000s, Bean was an original cast member in the Tony Award-winning production of Hairspray, originating the role of Sheley and understudying the roles of Tracy Turnblad, Velma Von Tussle, and Penny Pingleton.
On February 23, 2009, Bean attended Defying Inequality, a Broadway benefit concert and fundraiser for several organizations actively striving for marriage equality. Alongside other top-name performers, political leaders and LGBT activists, Larkin’s presence publicly acknowledged her support of the freedom to marry.
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Shoshana Bean as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Leigh Ann Larkin

Leigh Ann Larkin made her Broadway debut in Gypsy, alongside Patti LuPone, Boyd Gaines, Laura Benanti, and an ensemble of talented cast members. When Gypsy closed in early 2009, Larkin booked appearances on two different television series: Lipstick Jungle and Flight of the Conchords.
On February 23, 2009, Larkin attended Defying Inequality, a Broadway benefit concert and fundraiser for several organizations actively striving for marriage equality. Alongside other top-name performers, political leaders and LGBT activists, Larkin’s presence publicly acknowledged her support of the freedom to marry.
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Leigh Ann Larkin as a Voice for Equality!
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Voice for Equality: Matt Alber

Matt Alber is an openly gay singer/songwriter based in Los Angeles, California. His most recent album, “Hide Nothing,” was released on the heels of five years, seven albums and two Grammy Awards as a soprano in America’s premier classical a cappella ensemble, Chanticleer.
On February 23, 2009, Alber was a featured performer at Defying Inequality, a Broadway benefit concert and fundraiser for several organizations actively striving for marriage equality. With Alber’s help, Defying Inequality raised over $400,000 for the fight for equal rights.
Freedom to Marry is proud to salute Matt Alber as a Voice for Equality!
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US Senators Schumer and Gillibrand to NY Legislators: Pass the Freedom to Marry Bill
U.S. Senators Schumer and Gillibrand write to members of the New York legislature requesting they support the freedom to marry bill: "Equal protection under the law has always been a hallmark of the American political and legal system, and in this instance we believe this principle should be extended to all those in our state who seek the civil contract of marriage and the numerous legal rights and protections that come with it." (Link)
Support Grows for the Freedom to Marry in DC
May 22, 2009
The discussion over whether the District of Columbia should legalize the freedom to marry picked up steam and moved to the city’s neighborhoods over the past week as the Democratic Party committees in wards 8 and 6 voted to endorse full marriage equality for gays while the party committee in Ward 5 voted “no” on the issue. Meanwhile, another member of the City Council, Harry Thomas (D-Ward 5), said through a spokesperson that he would vote for a full marriage bill, making him the 11th member of the 13-member Council to inform the Blade in an informal survey of their support for the legislation. [link]
Md. Legislators, Activists Forging Ahead on Marriage
May 22, 2009
Following an editorial in the Baltimore Sun that encouraged Gov. Martin O’Malley to have Attorney General Doug Gansler provide the governor “a legal opinion determining whether Maryland law permits the state to recognize same-sex marriages performed elsewhere," the Governor has taken no public action. However Equality Maryland is nonetheless working with the American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and elected officials to have the attorney general supply an opinion, and move it forward. [link]
White House Affirms Support for DOMA Repeal
May 21, 2009
The White House on Wednesday issued a statement reiterating President Obama's support for repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act. "DOMA is a federal law passed by Congress that precludes uniform federal recognition of same-sex relationships, even those recognized as valid under the law of the state," the statement says. "Because the President believes that this is an issue that should be left to the states, he continues to support the legislative repeal of DOMA." [link]
Two Anti-marriage Bills Introduced in Congress
May 22, 2009
Two bills aimed at thwarting marriage rights for same-sex couples were introduced in the U.S. House yesterday. One, H.J.Res.54 is a resolution that formally “disapproves” of the elected DC council and Mayor’s decision to recognize marriages of same-sex couples performed in other jurisdictions. Introduced by Rep. Paul Broun of Georgia, the resolution is the first step if Congress tries to use its formal role in overruling the District’s local affairs. [link]
Equal Benefits Bill for Federal Employees Introduced in House and Senate
May 21, 2009
Yesterday, we saw the bipartisan reintroduction of the Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligations Act (DPBO) by Representatives Tammy Baldwin (D-WI) and Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R-FL) in the House and Senators Joe Lieberman (ID-CT) and Susan Collins (R-ME) in the Senate. This legislation would extend benefits to same-sex domestic partners of federal civilian employees on the same basis as spousal benefits. [link]
Generations Reshape Marriage Equality Debate
May 21, 2009
Trends suggest the debate over marriage equality could fade in the not-too-distant future. The states where marriage of gay couples is more tolerated are passing laws allowing it. Younger Americans, more eclectic in their views on social issues and more likely to have friends or family members who are openly gay, are more tolerant of same-sex couples than their parents or grandparents and appear to be more interested in compromise. [link]
Why the New York GOP Should Embrace the Freedom to Marry
May 22, 2009
Meghan McCain: "I support marriage equality. It is the best and fairest way to grant gay and lesbian neighbors and family members the protections and responsibilities that they need to provide for their family and give back to their community. As Republicans, we understand the importance of strong communities. Last week, the New York Assembly passed the marriage bill with the support of five Republican Assembly members. Now, the bill goes before the state Senate, where Republican senators will make the difference on whether the bill becomes law or dies. Once again, New York has the opportunity to make a statement about Republican values and fairness by passing the marriage bill." [link]